Monday, May 15, 2017

Reducing Your Risks in Life




           
            EVERY PLACE I travel, the Lord speaks to me. Maybe it’s because I’ve gotten to the age and stage of life where I’m searching for and expecting it. I'm listening. He speaks to me in nature, in people, and in sights, smells, and sounds. And He did so again on my recent trip to Savannah, Georgia.



            
              The weekend of May 4-7, I gathered with eleven other Guideposts Magazine writers and four of their editors to tear apart and reassemble stories we’d written for one of the Guideposts publications—Guideposts, Angels on Earth, Mysterious Ways, and their new publication All Creatures. It was a packed weekend of meeting new people—with hearts to tell God’s stories—making new friends, and a crash course in historic Old Savannah. Staying right on the Savannah River, in what was once a cotton warehouse, helped transport me into the antebellum era-meets-modern-amenities city. If I closed one eye I could almost see the antebellum Southern dames strolling the cobblestone and brick-lain streets with their handsome, chivalrous beaus.

           
            When you’re a writer, you look for even the smallest clues and events that might give you a story, a reason to write. (Sometimes we look for a story where there is none, but that’s another topic.) And I went looking.
           
            Not only did God answer my prayers as He spoke to me through the amazing lives and testimonies of the women writers I gathered with; He spoke to me through a sign—a black and yellow metal warning sign posted on a brick wall. Not the likeliest place to hear from God. I found it one day while I was out strolling around the waterfront.





           
           Let's zoom in closer to the sign on this brick wall.






           
            “HISTORIC STEPS. USE AT OWN RISK.”
           
            What do you think I did when I came across these? Turn around and take a different route? HA! I couldn’t resist. I strolled over to the several-hundred-year-old steps, looked them over, decided they looked navigable, and definitely too attractive to avoid. I gingerly placed my foot on the first one. Seemed sturdy enough, so I ventured forward and upward.
           
            I was immediately struck by how steep they were, the rise being pretty high and the tread being very narrow in depth. My thigh muscle actually complained as I lifted myself to the first level, and I’ve got pretty conditioned thigh muscles. A couple of thoughts that ran through my mind while I climbed were: They must have had pretty tiny feet back then; and How did they walk up and down these steps wearing those voluminous skirts!? 
           
            But those thoughts were incidental to the first thought I had when I encountered the sign: How very like life those steps and that sign are. Not the HISTORIC part. The USE AT YOUR OWN RISK part.
           
            So many things in life should have USE—or DO—AT YOUR OWN RISK signs plastered on them. Scripture is full of things we should bypass at all costs. God has already laid out a nice instruction manual for us to use to avoid or reduce trouble and heartache. If we have good parents, they reinforce those truths, and if we’re smart children, we pay attention to them and follow them. God has also instilled in us a sense of right and wrong; we know when we’re throwing good judgment and behavior to the wind and taking unnecessary risks that might injure or damage our lives.
           
            God provides us with ways out. He even tells us in Scripture that He does. With those stairs, just to be safe, I could have turned around and taken a different route up to the main street. I could have avoided them altogether. But they were so alluring, so enticing. It was as though they beckoned me, as so many harmful things in life do.

            And such is the same with life. Taking unnecessary risks. Not fleeing lusts, enticements, or worldly pleasures. Not putting my spiritual armor on everyday and then leaving myself vulnerable to attacks that make me cave in. Deliberately putting myself in a situation that could compromise my good character or end up making life unnecessarily difficult for me.

            Daily, and sometimes hourly, we are confronted with choices. And in order to make the best ones, we need to:


1. Be saturated in God’s word. Know what it says and don’t do anything that contradicts it, no matter how enticing it is.

2. Be prayed up. Go away someplace to be alone with God. Pray for His wisdom and discernment to guide you. Be sensitive to the leading of His Holy Spirit, who will never mislead you.

3. Spend a lot less time listening to the world and its wisdom. Turn it off and shut it down. Raise a hedge of protection around yourself. That way you reduce the harm that can come to you, while also reducing the harm that you might bring to someone else. It will also abate the harm you might bring to yourself.

           
            If you do all of these things daily, you’ll scale down the risk you encounter.
           
            And you’ll enjoy a lot more peace in your life!

            I couldn’t resist showing you some of the sites I encountered in Savannah. Enjoy!












On the last picture, I'll let you guess which one's me!  



Until next week!

Blessings,
           
Andrea
May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

Photos courtesy of Andrea A Owan and Google Images

Monday, May 8, 2017

Motherhood’s Defiant Joy





           
            IT’S NOT easy being a mother. While it is unquestionably one of the greatest joys and rewards in your life, it can be laden with frustration and many types of heartache.

            And it’s to those mothers—the ones who have suffered the heartache of loss—that I dedicate this blog post.

            Just how do you survive the loss of a child, especially a young one? How do you survive having all of your dreams smashed and your faith challenged and come out on the other end of the black hole laughing, hoping, and moving forward?

            In her book and Still She Laughs: Defiant Joy in the Depths of Suffering, Kate Merrick writes:


All I have endured and traveled through over the last six years has brought me much closer to Jesus, even while it has simultaneously flung me into the deepest crevice of loneliness and pain and confusion.”

            
            Ever feel like Merrick? What strikes me most in the book title, (along with her nod to Proverbs 31), is her use of the word “defiant”. Someone who is defiant is resistant, obstinate, uncooperative. Someone who resists defeat.

            Merrick refused to cooperate with the emotions that materialize in the depths of suffering. The bitterness that comes hand-in-hand with heartache; the anger that lashes out in an attempt to lay blame at someone’s feet and insist on answers to the question “why”.
           
            After watching her young daughter, Daisy Love, suffer through cancer treatment for three-and-a-half years, Merrick endured Daisy’s death in 2013. In this book, she tells how she’s making her way back toward laughter and finding life to be filled with good things.

            In the blog post I have linked below—an excerpt from her book—Merrick shares insight to the shock, the chaos, the pain and the tears. She shares how, in spite of it all, she chooses to move forward. Toward Heaven. It’s an attitude that equates to action; to living life in spite of the gargantuan wound in her heart.

            So, on this upcoming Mother’s Day (May 14) in the U.S., remember those mothers who must persevere despite having an empty place at the table. Those mothers who have given their all to win, and still suffered loss. Those mothers who had to dream new dreams when the first ones were taken away.

            Those mothers who choose to laugh in spite of it all, and look toward Heaven.

           





Until next week,
Andrea
May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

Images by Google


Monday, May 1, 2017

Being Loved and Living Like It!



            I DID something the other day that I haven’t done in years.

           
            My husband, Chris, and I went to a rock concert. Not just any rock concert, though. A CHRISTIAN rock concert. (Ever been to one of those?) Even though the two of us were exhausted from too many weeks of home remodeling and suffering nagging headaches and sore bodies, we got cleaned up and dressed up and shuffled into the big concert hall on our local university’s campus. We joined a packed house of tweens, teens, millenials, seniors, oldsters and families to hear Micah Tyler, Hawk Nelson, and the incredible MercyMe tell jokes, make us weep, witness to us, sing to us, and play their hearts out. It was one of the greatest three and a half hours of worship I’ve ever experienced.
           
            And one song made me pause, right before the brain light turned on. It gave me that AH HA! moment that stayed with me right through the night and into morning. And I’m still thinking about it. It’s actually driving my thinking. And a lot of people must be on the same page because the Hawk Nelson band had T-shirts in the lobby with these verses on them.
           

            Live like you’re loved…
           
            Walk like you’re free…
           
            Live like you believe…




 BEING LOVED
           
            People who are loved are content and confident. People who are loved are happy. People who are loved are filled and satisfied. People who are loved exhibit love toward others.
           
            Did you catch that last sentence? People who are loved exhibit love toward others. They look different, they act different. They live life differently. They exude joy. And isn’t that what Jesus said—that we are to love others as He loves us; and that others (unbelievers) will know we are Christ-followers when we love one another.



           

WALKING FREE
           
            And people who are saved by faith in God’s grace are free. They live free. They are less encumbered and weighed down by life, by circumstances. They don't ooze doubts and fears or let their lives be overrun by them. And if that’s true, then shouldn’t we be walking like we’re free? Free and proud of the One who broke the chains of sin and granted us freedom! Jesus said that we would know the truth, and that truth would set us free.





LIVING YOUR BELIEF
           
            And people who believe in Jesus—really believe in Him—exude a confidence in Him. Not in their belief, but in Him. God did not give us a spirit of fear but one of power. Security and confidence. The longer you know Him and the deeper your relationship with Him, the more likely you are to be saturated in belief. Day-by-day He demonstrates his faithfulness that only solidifies that belief. It is that default button when life goes awry, and you don’t have a clue what’s going on. You rest in your belief that He does, and He will always do what’s best for you. As Casting Crowns sings: “To know You is to want to know You more.”

            As I listened to and sang the words, I had to ask myself if I really lived like I was loved; if I really lived like I was free; if I really lived like I believed. Or if I stuffed the love, still carried those chains of sins around with me, (because they’re familiar or I get something out of being a martyr by hanging onto them), or if I shied away from being bold about my belief in the company of others. (Not obnoxious and not throwing pearls before people who would trample the truth, but salt and light to a sinful, dying, hurting world.)

           
           
            On this day I’m calling Music Monday, if you’d like to have a great time of worship and go deeper into the love of God through His Son Jesus Christ, watch these videos. And while you’re watching, think deeply about the lyrics of these songs, and do some jumping around! After all, is it not a joy and privilege to know and love the Lord!?

             “Live Like You’re Love” by Hawk Nelson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_r47Xhkf20

            If you don’t know or doubt whether you’re loved, enjoy this Hawk Nelson song, “Drops in the Ocean.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZH13wFGffg


And for a bonus, here’s the Casting Crowns song: “To Know You”.

           

            Have a great week living like you’re loved, living like you’re free, and living like you really believe!




By the way—Happy May Day!!

Until next week,

Blessings!

Andrea
May you prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

Photos by Andrea A Owan and Google Images