Monday, December 28, 2015

A Sacrificial Gift






           Christmas is a time of giving of gifts. The first gift started with God giving Himself through His son Jesus to the world. It was, and still is, the ultimate gift. And it was sacrificial.

            Since we’re still on the topic of gifts, it's fresh in our minds, and many of us are still basking in Christmas gift-giving afterglow, I thought this story was appropriate to share with you: the sacrificial gift a mother makes starting immediately after the tragic loss of her infant. I wish I’d thought of it, or had someone suggest it to me when we suffered our loss. I think it would have made the loss of our daughter a little more manageable, and my life more purposeful.



Until next Monday, have a safe and joyful New Year’s celebration. And may your next year be filled with wonderful surprises, more joy, and abundant prosperity—in all things!

Thanks for joining me!

Blessings,

Andrea


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Monday, December 14, 2015

Lighting Your Joy Candle




           This month’s issue of Guideposts magazine has a story written by California pastor Dave Beckwith about what happened to him three weeks before Christmas one year.
           
            Their Christmas decorations consisted of three big words illuminated on the eave of their house: Love. Joy. Peace. They’d been erecting these three words on their house since 1982. People snapped pictures of them; others left thank you notes.
           
            Then one morning, Pastor Beckwith opened the door and found a gaping space where his Joy should have been. Someone had clipped the connecting wires and spirited his “joy” away. He couldn’t believe someone would steal it! His wife quipped that someone must have been depressed and needed it.
           
            Ever felt like that? Depressed and in need of joy?
           
            Many people experience that void this time of year and don’t know why or how to find it. They think they’ll find it in the office party after a night of revelry. Or they think they’ll find it in a gift they’ve put on their wish list, if only someone will buy them the gift. Or they might purchase the gift for themselves. Unfortunately, both methods of receiving often result in a brief, transient joy, and then we feel the void all over again. This is supposed to be a supremely joyful time of year. If that’s true, why do so many people alone and depressed?
           
            Maybe it’s because we’re looking for the wrong people and things to give us joy. Maybe we don’t really know what the source of it is.
           
            Advent is a time where we look forward with hope, in remembrance of God’s promises to humanity that He will come again. We also prepare our hearts to receive God, both now, in this life, and when He does return. We celebrate joy with the remembrance of the angels’ announcement of Jesus’ birth, which I wrote about last week. And we celebrate love—the unfathomable, unconditional love of a God who sent His only son to Earth to redeem mankind.
           
            In reality, Christmas doesn’t just last one day, it is a “season.” A season that should keep on going—at least in your heart—throughout the year. We use this season to remember, to look forward, to prepare our hearts for the upcoming year.
           
            Pastor Beckwith eventually got his Joy replaced, made by a carpenter who fashioned a Joy sign with his gifted hands, and also learned the source of true joy in the process. 

            Yesterday, Christians around the world specifically focused on “joy” and lit the “joy” candle on the Advent wreath in their churches and in their homes. Did you light your candle? Did you celebrate? Is your internal, and eternal, candle lit brightly? Are you carrying it around with you in your heart, to warm your soul and illuminate your life?
           
           
            My challenge to you this week is this:
           
            If you possess true joy, look for ways to spread it around this week. There are a lot of people looking for it. Pray for God to open your eyes and ears to the joy-deprived. Sometimes all you need to do is look in their eyes to know if they know joy or not. Shine your candlelight of joy in someone’s life, and use your light to spark a flame in someone else.

            If you don’t know the source of true joy, or are looking for it, ask someone who seems to possess it—someone who is illuminating their joy light—how and where they got it. 
           
            And let me know what happens!


Until next week,

Thanks for joining me!

Blessings (and prayers for your hearts to be full to overflowing with joy!),

Andrea

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Monday, December 7, 2015

Did Someone Steal Your Joy?




            Has anyone ever stolen your joy? This past week in the United States—more specifically Southern California—a couple of people tried to steal and obliterate the collective joy of a city, of a state, of a nation, and maybe, of the world. They also tried to steal the personal joy of wives, husbands, sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, fiancées, lovers, friends and co-workers. Were they successful? If one survivor’s words are a measure of their success, then I think they failed miserably.
           
            The daughter of one of the victims held a sign that was photographed and witnessed on news services across the nation. It read: Do not let the actions of others rob you of your joy.
           
            Standing next to her father, the young woman spoke eloquently about the positive life her mother led, her servant’s heart and joyful attitude, and how she, herself—to honor her mother—planned to continue living that kind of life. The story became even more poignant when we learned that her mother had come to the United States in order to escape religious extremism in her native Iran. While I am sure her daughter is grieving deeply, she seems determined to not allow this unconscionable act of violence that has invaded and violated her heart and home from stealing her joy. The joy that must surely reside deeply within her soul.
           
            The widow of another victim—a Messianic Jew who evidently loved lively discussions and debates about all things religious—said she would also be sustained by his memory and the way he lived life.
           
            Clearly, these two grievers are not grieving without hope.
           
            When events like this occur, they force us to honestly examine our internal worldview. How we observe, process and analyze the world’s events. What we believe about people in general and believe about ourselves in specifics. Most importantly, what we believe about God.
           
            Do these events completely surprise you or rock your world and worldview? Or do they serve to bolster your faith and resolve to stand firm to not let evil invade your heart and steal your joy, even though it may bring you to your knees?
           
            My pastor, Dr. Mark Lansberry had something to say about this last week, in reference to Advent, and before the tragic events in San Bernardino.
           
            “There is greater reality than our shadows. [Jesus] lives within us in the form and power of the Holy Spirit. Our reality is Christ, and Him coming again. The Son of Man has come, is coming, and will come again.
           
            “Take note of the gathering shadows. He is right at the door. Christ comes to dispel shadows. Our hope is in Christ, and Christ doesn’t disappoint.”
           
            “Advent is about God who comes to us in our shadows. Look out the windows of life for Christ to come. We are to be alert, keep on watch. Stay awake!”
           
            Pastor Mark compared it to the attitude of joy a child has when watching through the windows and waiting for his mom or dad to return home. He’s watching and waiting, waiting and watching. Expectantly; with hope and a joyful heart that his expectant heart will soon be satisfied.
           
            In these last days, we live in a multitude of shadows. Our own shadows dog us, and we watch hideous, frightful shadows materialize all around the world.
           
            Through it all, we who possess Hope, Truth and Life watch and wait, wait and watch, with an attitude of joy that—if we stand firm—cannot and will not be stolen from us, even though another person attempts to rip it from our hearts and souls.
           
            This Advent we celebrate both the original birth of Joy, the existence of Joy in our own hearts, and the future return of Joy to Earth.
           
            Joy has come, is coming, and will come again!
           
            Jesus—Joy itself—had something to say about tribulation. “These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”
           
            Or as it reads so bluntly in The Message: “I’ve told you all this so that trusting me, you will be unshakable and assured, deeply at peace. In this godless world you will continue to experience difficulties. But take heart! I’ve conquered the world.”
           
           
            This Advent season, make yourself a vessel of joy, and let that joy spill out onto others. Search for joy; latch onto it when you find it. Claim it as your own. Nurture and cherish it. Display it in the face of evil. And watch and wait for it to come again.

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Next week we’ll return to a more light-hearted look at joy.

Until next week,

Thanks for joining me!

Blessings,

Andrea


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