Monday, June 27, 2016

Marriage on My Mind: Tips for a Good One!




            Marriage is on my mind today, probably because last Friday my older son married his college sweetheart and, in one quickly uttered “I do,” launched me into the mother-in-law sorority. I’m thrilled to be a new member! And marriage is also on my mind because I’m looking forward to August when my beloved and I celebrate our own years of wedded bliss. Thirty-three blissful years to be exact.
           
            Have they always been blissful? No. Some of have been downright painful and difficult. We’ve suffered tragic losses, acted selfishly, and placed ridiculous burdens upon one another. But we’ve always looked to the One who binds us together to keep us bound together, and He has been faithful to keep binding. And we keep forgiving, and learning, and loving, and life together is richer now than it was thirty-three years ago.
           
            And on the subject of marriage, James Watkins has provided some interesting, and sometimes humorous tips for staying married. Ten of them, actually.
           
            For your reading enjoyment, click on the link:


If you’re unable to access it, you can always go to his blog Hope and Humor to read it.
For those of you marrying this summer, or for those needing a refresher or extra tips for enjoying a healthy, fulfilling marriage, you’ll enjoy his tips. And if you can add to these, please share them with us. I’ll pass them onto my newlywed son!


Until next Monday, may your week be full of blessings that you receive and give, your heart be full of joy and thankfulness, and your days be filled with laughter! Build a little heaven in your life right now, and watch your heavenly garden grow!


Blessings,

Andrea


When the eyes of the soul looking out meet the eyes of God looking in, heaven has begun right here on earth. ~ A. W. Tozer

Monday, June 20, 2016

Time: Wise Investment of Your Magic Bank Account




            Ever heard of “The Magic Bank Account”? It’s actually not magic. It’s a gift bank account, one all of us possess. And it’s one of the most precious gift accounts we’re given, next to our lives, our souls, and God’s redeeming sacrifice for us. But it’s a little different than a regular bank account, where you can make deposits. In fact, you don’t open it, someone else does. And you don’t make deposits. Withdrawals yes; deposits, no. There are deposits, but they are made by Someone else, on your behalf. Until the day the account is closed, by Someone else. Read on to find out about this precious account.

            Imagine that you won the following “prize” in a contest: Each morning your bank would deposit $86,400 in to your private account for your use. However, this prize has rules:

1. Everything that you didn’t spend during each day would be taken away from you.
2. You may not simply transfer money into some other account.
3. Each morning upon awakening, the bank opens your account with another $86,400 for that day.
4. The bank can end the game without warning; at any time, it can say, “Game Over!” It can close the account and you will not receive a new one.

What would you personally do with all of that money?

You would buy anything and everything you wanted, right? Not only for yourself, but for all the people you love and care for. Even for people you don’t know, because you couldn’t possibly spend it all on yourself, right? You would try to spend every penny and use it all, because you knew it would be replenished in the morning, right?


Actually, this game is real!

Shocked by that statement? Yes!

Each of us is already a winner of this “prize”. We just can’t seem to see it.

The prize?

Time. 

That’s right. Time.

1. Each morning we awaken to receive 86,400 seconds of God’s gift of life.
2. And when we go to sleep at night, any remaining time is NOT credited to us.
3. What we haven’t used up that day is lost forever.
4. Yesterday is forever gone.
5. Each morning the account is refilled, but the bank can dissolve your account at any time, without warning…

So, what will you do with your 86,400 seconds?

Those seconds are worth so much more than the same amount in dollars. Think about it and remember to enjoy every second of your life, because time races by so much quicker than you think.

This “Why Time Counts” story was carried around by the famous University of Alabama football coach Bear Bryant, a Christian who worked diligently to make each day—and his contribution to it and the young men he worked with—the best he could possibly could.
           
Time.

Don’t waste your time, and don’t waste the time that belongs to others. It’s a precious gift for them, too!

Until next Monday, may your week be full of blessings that you receive and give, your heart be full of joy and thankfulness, and your days be filled with laughter! Build a little heaven in your life right now, and watch your heavenly garden grow!


Blessings,

Andrea

When the eyes of the soul looking out meet the eyes of God looking in, heaven has begun right here on earth. ~ A. W. Tozer

Monday, June 13, 2016

Experiencing God Moments: Lessons Learned from Practicing Spiritual Disciplines






As I mentioned in last week’s post, I’ve started my journey through The Imitation of Christ: Classic Devotions in Today’s Language, written by Thomas A Kempis and updated by James N. Watkins. And as I also noted, the original version had a significant impact on The Jesuits founder, St. Ignatius of Loyola. The lessons inspired him to compile his own spiritual disciplines. They are about going deeper in our daily faith practices and enriching our faith.

            These lessons are still inspiring others in the 21st Century. One such believer, Karen Beattie, discovered these spiritual disciplines when she started taking a closer look at some of the most recognizable Christians in history who practiced daily spiritual disciplines. She was desperately trying to find God in the details of her life when she discovered them during a church retreat. What she learned changed her view of her daily walk with God, and her life.

            This is how she outlines the steps you can take daily to see your life more clearly, and help you to live more intentionally.

Become aware of God’s presence by looking back on the events of the day. Ask God to give you clarity and understanding.

Review your day with gratitude by focusing on the day’s gifts. Notice the small things—God is in the details.

Pay attention to your emotions. St. Ignatius believed that we detect the presence of God in the movements of our emotions. By reflecting on our feelings we can become more aware of ways God is leading us.

Choose one feature of the day and pray from it. Ask the Holy Spirit to direct you to something during the day that God thinks is particularly important.

Look toward tomorrow. Ask God to give you light for tomorrow’s challenges. Seek God’s guidance. Ask him for help and understanding. Pray for hope.

             
             After practicing these disciplines, Beattie was able to see God in everything—both the simple and the complex; the joy and the heartache. The disciplines help you stay alert to God and not overlook what she calls “God moments”.
             
             If they draw you closer to God and help you live a more intentional life, focused on Him, then I think they are worth trying. One alert, though: While I think being in tune to your emotions is important, they can often misguide you. My recommendation would be to dismiss any emotions that contradict God’s word. If in doubt, seek a spiritual mentor, pastor, knowledgeable friend, or accountability partner for answers.
             
             And along with praying for hope, pray for an extra measure of faith and love. These are the three attributes that our Christianity ultimately boils down to, and of the three, love is the greatest.

*For Beattie’s entire post, go to http://forher.aleteia.org/articles/praying-daily-examen/


Ignatius’s disciplines are just one of many spiritual discipline outlines found today. Google the topic Spiritual Disciplines to learn more and see what is available for your reading.


Until next Monday, may your week be full of blessings that you receive and give, your heart be full of joy and thankfulness, and your days be filled with laughter! Build a little heaven in your life right now, and watch your heavenly garden grow!





Blessings,

Andrea

When the eyes of the soul looking out meet the eyes of God looking in, heaven has begun right here on earth. ~ A. W. Tozer

*Note: While I do not agree with all of the theology found on the For Her site, there are pearls to be found there.


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Monday, June 6, 2016

Pursuing Eternity Through Imitation





           When I wrote this post, I was sitting at home in my comfy chair in my study, my legs wrapped in a faux animal blanket (yes, we do sometimes need those in Southern Arizona), and had just completed my 50 Days of Heaven devotional study written by Randy Alcorn. For some reason only my Creator knows, my eyelids had snapped open at 3:00 AM, and after a half hour battle between my brain and body, I resigned myself to rising three hours ahead of schedule to get my day started.
           
            Today, though, I’m not at home in my chair. I’m not at “home” at all. I’m actually traveling. For four days I have soaked up the sights, smells and sounds of one of my favorite places in the world. (Fortunately, I’m pretty portable and have many “favorite” places.) My husband and I are preparing to reunite with a yet-to-be-determined number of friends and peripheral acquaintances for four days of laughter, feasting, picnicking and frolicking, public service activities, and maybe even a little dancing, if my arthritic toes cooperate. And we’ll gather for a memorial service to remember friends who we’ve had to bid a final aloha to, on this side of Heaven, at least.
           
            The places I’m visiting on my yearly rest, rejuvenation and no technology holiday (which is also a my-life-depends-upon-it escape from our searing Southern Arizona June heat) is a fitting place for me to be so soon after I close my study on Heaven and the fifty reflections that brought eternity to light. Because in being here—in the midst of all of this lush beauty, surrounded by water, salt air, and some errant cacti and pine trees—my mind, and my body, don’t have to “come down” from Heaven yet. It seems a perfect environment in which to ponder the peace, fellowship, youthful vigor and abundant, joyful activity I’ll delight in in my future home. And it is a fitting place in which to ponder just how I pursue my future, eternal home, right now, on this groaning earth.
           
            To aid me in that pursuit, I have picked up an “old” book written in contemporary language. It’s The Imitation of Christ: Classic Devotions in Today’s Language. Author James N. Watkins has taken Thomas A Kempis’s classic and re-written it for modern eyes and hearts. Although many of us don’t spend much time pursuing eternity, there is no better way to prepare for Heaven (and no better way to live here) than to spend your energies—and life—learning how to imitate Jesus.
           
            Emulating that truth may be more difficult than it seems when you learn that the primary message of this book is: “Be content to be unknown and not respected” as Watkins points out in his introduction. As Watkins professes, through his reading of The Imitation of Christ, he realized that although he knew Christ, he really didn’t know Him.
           
            And is that not what we as believers and followers of Christ should aspire to—really knowing our Savior? Like you know your best friend, your love? After all, He is our bridegroom, and we are his bride. Randy Alcorn says it beautifully and poignantly in his 50 Days of Heaven.

           
            “Any bride in love with her husband wants to be with him more than anything.
            But if he goes away for a time to build a beautiful place for her, won’t she
            get excited about it? Won’t she think about it and talk about it? Of course she
            will. Moreover, her husband wants her to! If he tells her, ‘I’m going to prepare 
            a place for you,’ he’s implying, ‘I want you to look forward to it.’ Her love and
            longing for the place he’s preparing—where she will live with her husband—
            is inseparable from her love and longing for him.”

           
            In a nutshell: loving and longing for Christ means loving and longing for (and pursuing) Heaven.


Evaluating Our Thoughts


           
            So why has our longing for Heaven—our eternal home—grown so cold, so lackluster?
           
            Perhaps it’s because we’re spending so little time thinking about our Husband. Our eyes and hearts are drawn and fastened elsewhere. As Alcorn also points out, when we meditate on Jesus and our future in Heaven, sin (and, I might add, so much of what we do and think is important in life) is unappealing. He drives the point home when he says, “Our high tolerance of sin testifies to our failure to prepare for Heaven.” Ouch.
           
            So that will make up a lot of what I’ll be doing on this year’s vacation—thinking about my Husband, fastening my eyes on Him, asking Him to reveal to me where I’ve tolerated what He finds intolerable, and delighting in the natural hors d’oeuvres that are a foretaste of Heaven.
           
            The world tells us to be prepared for everything major in life: education, career, marriage, children, buying a home, retirement. Why not prepare for the most important place you’ll ever live?
           
            As Alcorn says, we don’t prepare because we don’t spend too much time thinking about it. Or thinking about it seriously. And that’s what I’m being convicted to do on this year’s vacation: Thinking about how I’m preparing (or not preparing) for Heaven. I’m thinking about my pursuit of imitation. Sounds like a pretty good investment of time to me. With the ninety devotionals in Watkins’s book, this pursuing should keep me busy for a while. Actually, it should keep me busy long after I’ve closed the book. It should keep me busy for a lifetime.

           
            So, do you mind if I ask, “How are you preparing for Heaven?” Are you ready to take the challenge and pursue eternity? If you are, James Watkins’s new book, The Imitation of Christ, might be a good place to start.





Reaching Farther
           
            The Imitation of Christ had a significant impact on The Jesuits founder, St. Ignatius of Loyola. The lessons inspired him to compile his own spiritual disciplines. We’ll look at those next week and see how incorporating them into our daily lives will help us in our pursuit.
           
           
            Until next Monday, may your week be full of blessings that you receive and give, your heart be full of joy and thankfulness, and your days be filled with laughter! Build a little heaven in your life right now, and watch your heavenly garden grow!


Blessings,

Andrea

When the eyes of the soul looking out meet the eyes of God looking in, heaven has begun right here on earth. ~ A. W. Tozer

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